Song Details
- Album Release Date: 2012
- Genre: samba
Song Meaning of “Desejo E Desdém” by Jair Oliveira
“Desejo E Desdém” by Jair Oliveira is a song about the longing and defiance that comes with a passionate yet unfulfilled romantic relationship. It speaks of the heartache and anger that comes when one is in love with someone who cannot, or will not, return their affections. The title “Desejo E Desdém” translates to “Longing and Defiance” in Portuguese, and the lyrics depict a mix of both emotions as the narrator grapples with his conflicting feelings for his unrequited love.
The narrator reflects on how he gave his heart away, and how he still feels the same longing and determination for his beloved, even though she does not feel the same in return. He acknowledges that being in love can be painful, yet he is still not ready to let go, holding onto his dream of being in a relationship with her. The chorus “Amor meu, amor meu/Vem comigo meu bem” (My Love, My Love/Come to me, my love) echoes his desire to reconcile his longing with her defiance, despite the constant reminder of her unrequited feelings.
The song ultimately speaks to the complexity and power of love, emphasizing the idea that one cannot control or dictate the feelings of another.